Why is that sad? Wait till you buy the mirophone, drumkit etc under the guise of "it's for the children to play with"
Yep, until they go to bed. When Sian was 2 I bought her a drum kit, guitar and mike for Christmas. I tested it (obviously) for 3 hours then broke the snare drum. Spent 4 hours gluing the damn thing back together again
She is a rocker, a semi Goth and her friends are all Goths. They're all good kids though. So long as she's got the self confidence to express herself freely she can dress how she wants (as long as she's covered up properly!)